How to Get a Girlfriend When You Are Single and Shy With Women

It's quite the combination, isn't it? Being single and shy around women makes it seem quite difficult to get your dating life in order especially if you feel like you really want to get a girlfriend. While that may be the way that you are feeling right at the moment, I assure you that things can change. You don't have to be shy around women forever, and you also don't have to feel like it is a challenge to get a girlfriend if you are single and shy. There are definitely things that you can do that will change that experience for you.

Here is what you want to do if you want a girlfriend but you are currently single and shy around women:

1) Don't allow yourself to use your shyness as a crutch to keep you on the sidelines.

You can't expect to excel at anything if you don't take a chance every now and again, can you? You wouldn't expect to do that in any other situation, so why would it be any different when it comes to getting a girlfriend. As long as you allow yourself to use your shyness around women as a crutch and a reason for your lack of success when it comes to dating, you are going to remain single and remain shy around women.

2) Find someone that you know who is good with women and pal around with them for a while.

It's much easier to see what actually works when it comes to dealing with women when you are actually around someone who is good with them. There are things that you are going to see working that might not make sense from a logical point of view, but as long as you are around someone who is already good with women, you will be able to pick up on them. Learning from actually seeing what works tends to have a lasting impact.

3) Light a fire inside you that motivates you to keep trying.

Probably the worst thing that you can do if you are single and shy around women is to just give up. Once you do that, you are going to feel even worse about your current situation than you already do and you are going to have even more reason for why it's not even worth it to put in any effort to try and change things. Light that fire inside you that makes you feel like you really want things to change so that you DO go out and keep trying, even if you don't see the success that you want right away.