How Well Is Your Relationship Going?

I know that a point in time may come when you are wondering to yourself, "Man, I want a boyfriend and/or girlfriend." But when you think that to yourself, you have to ask yourself, "Why aren't I in a relationship to begin with." In a relationship, there isn't just touching and feeling and I want to be with him or her all day. If you are going to be a in a relationship there are a lot of other things to consider, especially if you are between the age groups 15-25. Just like other things in life there comes responsibility, trust and communication as well as love, peace, and happiness. When you do not have these things in your relationship, then you don't have a relationship at all, at least not a good one. There needs to be some type of structure in the relationship or it will just crumble.

When you are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, you always want to remember that you are not looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, you are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right now. They must have high standards that also meet your high standards. You might also want to keep in mind "Would I allow this person to eat dinner with my mother", if you can not answer this question truthfully, then it's probably best that you don't even think twice about being with them. Communication is also another important factor in being in a relationship; communicating doesn't mean just talking, communicating also means being honest with each other at all times even when it could potentially hurt the other. You BOTH always want to remember to keep that communication bond as strong as you can... AT ALL TIMES!

When you are young the most important thing that need to keep in mind is that you are still a child yourself. This means that you need to also keep your priorities in order; in short don't fall in love too soon. When teenagers fall in love to soon they receive consequences that they are not able to control or take back in the future. For example, teen pregnancy. Even though teen pregnancy has decreased in the past couple of years, doesn't mean that it doesn't still happen. The current teen rate is still at 86% in 2012. You always want to make smart decisions and think about other people and not just yourself. Be responsible. Life is and will always be what you make it. Control your own life. Take charge and have faith In God.