What If My Ex Girlfriend Is Ignoring Me - Does That Mean That I Shouldn't Pursue Her?

Your ex girlfriend is ignoring you and what you want to know is whether or not you should take that as a hint that you should not try to pursue getting back with her. You want to be able to get back with her, but you also don't want to end up annoying her because you know that if you do that, your chances of being able to get her back somewhere in the future probably are not going to be that good at all. After all, once you become the annoying ex boyfriend, it's kind of hard to come back in and try to smooth talk her into getting back with you, right?

Here is what I would recommend you do if your ex girlfriend is ignoring you for now:

1) Work on meeting new people and getting your social circle tighter and bigger.

You don't want to put all of your eggs in one basket in this situation and hope that your ex girlfriend will suddenly change her behavior and stop ignoring you. That might happen, but it might not. If you work on meeting new people and making your social circle a little tighter (forging deeper friendships) and bigger, you are not going to be so inclined to worry about the fact that your ex girlfriend isn't paying you any attention right now. Yes, you might still feel like you wish that she was giving you the attention that you want from her, but it is not going to be such a big deal that it is crushing if she doesn't.

2) Make your life more interesting so that if you do speak to your ex girlfriend, you have something to bring to the table that is appealing to her.

The more activities that you are into, the more interesting things that you are doing with your life, the better conversation you can make with your ex girlfriend if you do suddenly see her showing a little interest in you again. That is going to play out much better for you if you want to win her back than if you were to have a conversation and come across like you really haven't been doing anything but thinking about her since the break up happened. If you have not been getting much of any attention from her and then you do but you have nothing that really appeals to her, chances are good that she will just go right back to ignoring you.

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