You probably already know that it isn't that hard to become "friends" with a woman. All you have to do is be nice and have a couple of things in common and you can easily end up with a friend. However, going from that to being the kind of guy that women see as someone that they would date is a whole other story. There are plenty of guys out there who have a lot of female friends but still can't seem to be able to land a date no matter how hard that they try. And the reason for that is usually because women just don't seem them that way and until those guys know how to make a woman see them in that light, the same story is just going to play out again and again.
Here are some tips if you want to be able to make a woman see you as someone she would want to date:
1. You can't be timid about flirting with a woman if you want to her to see you as dating material.
Being afraid to flirt, or really being afraid of going beyond that friendly flirtations that men and women give each other when they are just friends is definitely one of the keys to making a woman think of you as being dating material. The thing is, most guys are afraid to do that, because they are afraid of rejection or they are afraid that they are going to end up saying the wrong thing. Well, if you want to make women see you as someone that they would date, you have to go beyond that fear and just do it.
2. You need to present yourself as best you can.
You don't have to worry too much about how you come across if all you are trying to do is become friends with a woman. Women are a lot less discerning when it comes to guys that they are just friends with as opposed to guys that they would go out with. So, if you want to be seen as more than friends material to a woman, you want to work on presenting yourself the best that you can.
3. She'll want to date you IF you can make her feel sexually attracted to you.
Okay, would you go out on a date with a woman you are not attracted to sexually? Probably not, unless you were really desperate, right? Well, same thing goes with women. They aren't going to be filled with desire to date you if there isn't any sexual attraction. Being able to make a woman feel that sexual attraction is one of the reasons why some guys get dates without putting in much of an effort. You want to be that guy, so learn to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you.
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