How to Get a Date With a Woman - A Simple Process That Usually Works Well

For some guys, it can be hard just to get a date with a woman and that is not the way that it should be. You shouldn't have to feel like you need to crack some unwritten code just to be able to land a date with a woman you like and you know what? You really don't have to. I am convinced that a lot of guys just end up making this dating thing way harder than it needs to be and a lot of the obstacles that they face are really in their own mind more than anything else. If you have been struggling to get dates with women, you might want to pay attention.

Here is a simple process that usually works well with a woman you are already at least slightly acquainted with:

1) Start a simple conversation with her that is mostly focused on getting to know her.

It's easy to flatter a woman just with the fact that you are trying to get to know her a little bit better and that is an easy thing to do if you can just start a little bit of chit chat with her that is mostly focused on getting to know more about who she is, what she likes, things like that. You don't want to put all of your focus on her, because you want her to get to know something about you, but if most of your focus is on her - she will most likely find that flattering and that is all you really need to do.

2) Flirt with her while you are getting to know her.

This is important because it is what will keep you from seeming like just a new friend to her. You don't want to be her new friend, you want to be a guy she is going to want to go out on a date with and flirting is a good and simple way to make her see you more in that way than as a friend.

3) End the conversation before it gets stale and then suggest that you and her get together some time to talk more.

If you allow the conversation to run its full course or get to the point where it starts to seem stale, then you don't really give her much of a reason to want to see you again. On the other hand, if you end it while it is still going well and you make the suggestion that you and her get together again, you should be able to get her phone number.

4) Call her up and get her talking again, this time for a short 10 minute conversation.

Once you have gotten her number, you want to call her up again so that you can get her talking some more and you can do a little more flirting plus getting to know her, while keeping it short enough that it doesn't drag on or get boring to her. As you are ready to get off the phone, make the suggestion that you and her do something and hold her to it. Keep it more along the lines of hanging out as opposed to saying "want to go on a date?"

If she says yes, then you can pretty much treat it like a date and it probably will go off that way as long as she is single and you don't try to act too formal. That's a mistake that a lot of guys will make, they will make things too formal and that usually will make her feel a little uncomfortable. If you don't do that and you keep the situation fun and light while still flirting with her while you are hanging out, you can turn that "get together" into a date pretty quickly.