Once upon a time, we fall in love. We build a life together. Then reality sets in. This is a typical relationship cycle. We begin with stars in our eyes, and as in all things, discord rocks our relationship. Sometimes we resolve the challenges immediately, but sometimes these things tear up the relationship. Whatever the reason may be, I am here to tell you how to get your ex-boyfriend back, and hopefully, get your fairy tale ending.
Conflict - and sometimes separation - is natural in all relationships. Even the popular stories of Cinderella, Snow White, and Sleeping Beauty had some form of dispute. In your case, the first step is acceptance. You need to accept that something went wrong between you and your ex-boyfriend, and understand what it was.
It's important to take the time you're not together to recognize what you could both do better in your relationship. For this to happen, you'll need some time apart. So give each other some breathing room. Do not get too pushy.
Once you've both done that, you need to have a sincere and honest conversation. You were in a relationship for a reason. You must have loved - or felt something for - each other, else you would not have been in that relationship. And unless he physically or emotionally abuses you, for sure, your relationship is worth saving.
If either of you still needs time to think things through before making any decision about your relationship, then give it time. I'm sure you realize that relationships take a lot of work. Both parties need to be really into it, or you will just end up the way you are now - estranged.
While giving you ex-boyfriend the space he needs, you can always drop some subtle hints to show him how much you still love him. You can be as creative as you like. You can send him flowers, have pizza delivered to him, slip a note or a musical card under his door, or dedicate a song for him on the radio.
Nothing too aggressive, mind you, as that would ruin the idea of "giving him space." Basically, you want to be out of sight, but not out of mind. You want him to miss you, but not forget you. At the same time, you want him to realize what an amazing woman you are, with the ability to allow him to be the man he is, but still loving him with all your heart.
If you persevere with these steps, you will soon find that you have no need to try to get your ex-boyfriend back. He will be the one to come to you, begging you to take him back. Men are hunters. They like to think of themselves as the aggressors, not the prey. As a woman, you need to let him be that way. So don't push, prod or pursue. Pretty soon, you will both have your ever after. The end.
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