How to Win Her Back If She Isn't Talking to You - 3 Tips For Dealing With the Silent Treatment

The silent treatment can be hard to deal with when you are in a relationship with a woman, but it can be even more difficult to deal with when she is your ex girlfriend and you have high hopes of being able to win her back. You might not see much reason to be optimistic about being able to get back with her if she happens to be giving you the silent treatment, but all is not lost. As long as you don't get too pessimistic and you find a way to get her talking to you a little bit, then you DO have a pretty good chance of being able to win her back.

Here are 3 tips if you are dealing with an ex girlfriend who is giving you the silent treatment:

1. You can't force her to talk to you, so don't even try to.

This is one of the mistakes that is easy to make. You want to hear her speak to you so badly, that you are willing to do just about anything to make that happen. However, if you try to force her to break that silence, you are going to be dealing with a woman who is resentful towards you and that is not a good thing at all.

2. Less is more.

One of the things that will make your ex girlfriend want to keep up that facade of acting like she doesn't want to speak to you is if you are trying to contact her way too often. You definitely don't want to come across like you are trying to stay in contact with your ex girlfriend all of the time. This is one of those situations where less contact can produce much better results, so don't think that it is a good thing to try and contact her a bunch of times. It's not.

3. She'll talk to you if she sees a new you.

This is something that almost always works to get an ex girlfriend talking to you again. If you find a way to come across as being "new" to her in a positive way, she is going to get curious about you. And the more curious that your ex girlfriend is, the more likely she is going to break that silence and want to speak to you again. She may just want to see what you have been up to or what the change is all about, but it will get her talking to you again and from there you can work on winning back your ex girlfriend.

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