She Has a New Man In Her Life - Does That Mean That You Are Out of Luck?

What is the one thing that you would have never wanted to hear about your ex girlfriend, the one that you are still hopelessly in love with and would do just about anything to get a second chance with her? How about hearing through the grapevine that she has a new man in her life? That's the kind of thing that will knock the wind out of your sails and make you question whether or not you have any chance at all of being able to rekindle the relationship with her. While the knee jerk reaction might be to conclude that it does mean that you are out of luck, that might not be the case.

You have to find out some of the details of what is actually going on here. For all you know, she is just casually seeing someone and it really doesn't mean anything at all. Plus, if the way that you have heard about it is through gossip, it might not even be true. People have a way of gossiping about things that they really don't know much about at all, and when it comes to juicy relationship gossip... jumping to conclusions is all the more prevalent.

Still, even if it does prove to be true that your ex girlfriend has a new man in her life, that doesn't necessarily mean that you are out luck if you want her back. I've seen plenty of situations where a woman ends up dating a guy after breaking up with her ex boyfriend... only to end up back with that ex boyfriend later on. So, if you think that it means that you are definitely out of luck, you might want to hold off on making that assumption for the time being.

What I will suggest is that you don't make the mistake of putting all of your hopes and dreams on winning her back. Be a little bit realistic about what is going on and the possibility that you might have to come to the conclusion that you are not going to be able to win her back. It might not be the way that you want it to be, but at least you won't be under any delusions if you are aware of the fact that it might end up being that way.

What you really need to do is to find out just how serious she might be about this new guy. If it seems like she is not that serious at all - then what you need to do is find a way to make her feel serious about YOU. Think of it being a challenge, one that you can meet and excel at. This might just end up being a chance for you to prove just how serious you are about your ex girlfriend and that might be all that it takes to win her back.